4) How to handle a Mistress giving you orders who isn't your Mistress,and you don't wish to follow them.
My recommendation, is to say something to the effect of 'With all due respect, Mistress So and So, I am submissive only to the one I've gotten to know and decided to submit to' (or something like that, something gentle) you don't EVER have to submit to anyone except YOUR Mistress but you should always treat a Domme with respect.
People who are rudely giving you commands online are probably not real life Dommes, anyway.
Real Dommes expect you to NOT follow orders from anyone you have not agreed to submit to. but there are a lot more submissive males then Dommes online..
DON'T ask questions like, "What do you do with your sub? If you notice a sub who has the respect of the Dommes, sure envy him, but also watch him and learn from him!
" or "What would you do to me if I were your sub." We don't do fantasy fodder wank material. What he is doing is working, he has the Dommes attention. I am a little confused by the subs who come in saying they are not worthy, if your not worthy why would a Domme want you?
If you expect it to shift into real time, for gawd sake, try to find someone who has more to offer you than just D/s.
D/s is fun, D/s is good, but D/s is also not all there is in life.
that most submissive men are very MUCH Men, they just know what they like,which is to please their Mistress in EVERY Way possible (within their limits) 12) Honesty is VERY important online, if you are married ADMIT it, there are a lot of other married folks online looking for something non-committal Just be open and honest, its the best thing to do .
Entering an on line chat room and announcing "On your knees! You might impress the dazzled and the desperate, but real dominants and submissives will laugh at you.
Pass worded rooms are invite ONLY, passwords will only be given out by the room owner when necessary. Note this is a Femdom BDSM chat; Male Dom and Male Switches will not be tolerated.
Drop outs often occur in the chat room through associated connectivity problems and are just a fact of using the internet, they occur to us all. Below are just some ideas and suggestions, you can take or leave them, that's up to you. (Yes, guy subs, I'm talking to YOU) The only people you impress are those who have been on line dominants for less than an hour or the Dommes who got their idea of D/s from internet fantasy fodder.
Just sending email and having a hot chat does not make you a sub. If this is just a cyber game to you, be sure your partner feels the same way.