" Millions of users have already signed up, Bird said.
“It sort of reminds me of every different color of crayon in the crayon box,” says online dating expert Julie Spira, founder of Cyber Dating
“There’s a different kind of site for everybody these days.
The appeal: they are “judgment-free zones where the like-minded can mingle freely and furtively.” “Star Trek fans are nerds,” says Oliver Gough, owner of Star Trek
“They know what they’re looking for.” Sites like are too broad for the kinds of hyperenthusiastic people who use his service, he says.
Saying "qapar Ha'qu" ("I love you") might be rushing it, so start slow with something like "HIgho S" ("Come here") or "n Iteb Ha' mam I' Dane H'a'? ") Steer clear of Klingon idioms such as "Dujeychugh jagh n Iv y Itu HQo" ("There is nothing shameful in falling before a superior enemy") and "gh Ij qet jaghmeyjaj" ("May your enemies run with fear.") That might send the wrong message and end a first date quickly.
If your Klingon is a bit shabby, just be a good listener.Finding something that is unique about yourself that you can share with someone else is really important.”Care to debate the merits of Deep Space Nine versus The Next Generation? Perhaps you have a mullet and want to meet people who are into that kind of thing. And then there’s Meeta Cowboy.com, which speaks for itself. Nothing is too strange,” says Frank Farkas, marketing assistant at First Beat Media—which owns a large portfolio of dating niche websites—and creator of Trekkies They worship the show.” In that regard, Star Trek isn’t just the perfect icebreaker to ease the awkwardness of an online meet-cute. “Go to generic sites like or e Harmony.com, and it’s harder to find someone you have this much in common with or someone with an interest you can latch on to that says we’re this similar,” Farkas says. A mutual quirky interest or shared obsession over the same movie predicts nothing about a potential couple’s future compatibility, says dating coach and author Evan Marc Katz.Head to one of the Star Trek–themed sites listed in this piece. Still, there’s something about the Star Trek fan community that makes sites celebrating them thrive. That both parties enjoy Star Trek has no bearing on whether they’re going to be devoted partners or argue a lot or be able to support each financially other decades from now. Go without your wife and have fun.” Putting so much stock in one interest rules out 90 percent of the people you could meet on a broader site that considers Vulcan fetishes as just one of many other equally (OK, perhaps more) important traits.After all, these are people who “nine times out of 10 post pictures of themselves Photoshopped on the starship.” One user, referring to himself as “Spockstar,” confirmed that theory in a recent email, writing that “the Trekkie scene in Australia is getting pretty huge” and that joining the site has helped him find dates for conventions.Another user named Victoria Levitt wrote that she joined the site because has a “soft spot for geeks!” and thought a Star Trek–themed dating service would be the place to find them.